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So, they impose upon it a style and design, development, aims, and paths. This is magical contemplating.
“If only he tried using challenging enough”, “If he only seriously planned to recover”, “If only we found the appropriate therapy”, “If only his defences were being down”, “There Needs to be one thing excellent and worthy under the hideous facade”, “NO ONE can be that evil and harmful”, “He needs to have intended it in a different way” “God, or an increased getting, or perhaps the spirit, or perhaps the soul is the answer and the answer to our prayers”.
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The narcissist retains these kinds of considering in scarcely undisguised contempt. To him, it is a sign of weakness, the scent of prey, a gaping vulnerability. He takes advantage of and abuses this human need for order, very good, and which means – as he uses and abuses all other human needs. Gullibility, selective blindness, malignant optimism – these are definitely the weapons of the beast. Along with the abused are really hard at do the job to offer it with its arsenal.